Human life seems marked by wounds and disappointments. The old resentments and regrets you’ve accumulated have created a burden that you carry with you at all times and that prevents you from rising to higher vibrations.
Accusations against yourself or others create the illusion that you and others are separate individuals. This automatically places your consciousness on the path of fear. Your mind can only focus on either duality or non-duality. Therefore, if you blame someone else for your “problem”, you automatically consider yourself separate from them. Consequently, you feel alone and separated from God. This thought is at the root of fear.
Clinging to an unfortunate event in the past in order to keep yourself from repeating such events in the future is like carrying around a thorn that pricked you in the past to remind you of what happened, preventing you from stepping on another thorn. In reality, keeping the thorn does you more harm than the original injury!
Clear your mind right now and become aware of the blockages in your energy field surrounding your physical body. If you have a resentment about something that once happened, you definitely carry it with you in the form of an energetic knot in your aura, which over time turns into an unhealthy energetic tumor inside you. Therefore, it is very important to free yourself as soon as possible from this attachment to the past situation … as well as from the bitterness and fear that it might happen again.
Painful actions always arise because of the belief in separation that makes people try to “get” something from their fellow human beings. This is how selfish actions are born, based on the belief that you have to compete with others to get the things you need, which you consider limited.
You can heal your past wounds with the following decision/prayer: “I now free myself of all the burden left from the past; I keep only the lessons learned and love. ” Beyond the old wound there continues to be love and trust, which you or someone else has betrayed. That love never dies, regardless of whether the relationship with the person in question never continued. The energy of love is eternal and omnipresent, always accompanying you. This truth remains true even if it seems to you that you no longer love the person involved in the past event.
You are a creation of God, blessed by God. Therefore, you cannot really be hurt, since you were created immortal, as an eternal extension of divine love. In the light of spiritual truth, no one and nothing can ever hurt you. Your soul will endure forever. Unfortunately, within the dream of separation countless wounds can accumulate, preventing you from remembering your divine origin.
Allow us, the angels, to escort your consciousness back to heaven, to bring you home to the awareness that it is all a mere dream from which you can awaken. Call upon us and ask us to help you stay focused on the eternal, not the external.
Source – 10 Messages Your Angels Want You To Know – Doreen Virtue